An Irresistible Invitation

Being made in the image of God means we are creative beings.  We are not created once, but keep recreating ourselves through many life stages.  Life circumstances can unfold in ways that nudge us off one course and onto another.  We all stand in need of occasional course corrections.  The most alert and observant among us will be the first to recognize the need.  Whereas Jews take inventory of needed course corrections in the days leading up to Yom Kippur, many Christians do so in the days leading up to Easter.   Next week marks the beginning of Lent, an occasion that invites us to ponder where we have veered off course so that we can expose those places to God’s creative power for healing, forgiveness and spiritual renewal. 

I want to dispel the notion that the practice of introspection is appropriate only for people who have veered way off course or made grave mistakes.  God extends an open invitation to intimacy to us all.  Every person who seeks to be in a more vigorous relationship with God will gain from a serious examination of what is getting in the way of that relationship.  Examining the 4 types of choices we have made is one way to approach this introspection. 

Maybe you are not sure where your life is going.  Maybe you’re lost or not sure if you are on the right course.  Maybe you’re certain you are on the wrong course.  Perhaps you’re stuck in doldrums, paralyzed by pain, shame, guilt, or wounds that won’t heal.  Maybe you are in so much pain you can’t wait for change, any change, to escape your current torment.  Or maybe you are comfortable with “the devil you know” and hesitate to believe in the transformation that is being offered to you.

Perhaps you are in need of healing after a rough patch of road, like a failed marriage or the death of a loved partner.  Being healed could give you freedom and energy to start a new stage of your life.  Or perhaps you anticipate a rough road ahead–a diagnosis, a trial or an ending–that begs for strength. 

Maybe you are in transition between life stages, stepping up to new responsibilities–marriage, parenthood, a new career direction–where the challenges call for new strength.  Or maybe you have already made significant positive changes in your life and you don’t want to rest on your laurels but to use your freedom to seek more awareness and intimacy with God.  Maybe your life path has been free of moral crisis and brokenness, and you simply wish to respond to the abundance of God’s grace in your life by drawing closer to him. 

Whatever has brought you to the place where you now stand, you are in receipt of an invitation.  You are invited to spiritual renewal.  The invitation places you at a crossroads.  You may choose to accept or to decline.  To accept is to be transformed, to experience life in a more joyful and freer way.  To decline is to leave unopened a great gift set before you. 

Join the conversation.  Will you rely on your own power or God’s power to change your course? 

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Charting a Course: Sources of Hope

Many years ago, a friend’s beloved black lab was diagnosed with cancer.  It was a particular kind of cancer that was proven to be treatable in dogs, but the treatment had severe side-effects.  Doctors can tell human patients, “There’s good news and bad news.  The bad news is it will feel like this treatment is killing you.  The good news is it will actually save your life instead.”  You can’t communicate that to dogs, though.  Dogs receiving treatment gave up on life and died in distress in such great numbers that veterinary best practice evolved to making dogs comfortable as long as possible before euthanizing.  Dogs couldn’t bear the journey without some concept of the destination.  They couldn’t endure without hope.

The destination can be a source of hope for us, too.  When we have an idea of where our life is heading, we can put obstacles and hardships into perspective and persevere.
The destination also gives us hope when we look inward to determine the course correction we need.  Looking inward is difficult.  Confronting the fact that we veered off course can be painful, and the pain can arise in a number of ways.  Here are three of them.

Consequences:  Incarceration, civil damages, foreclosure, loss of relationship, health, job, or life…some consequences are exquisitely painful.  So is genuine grief for years one can’t get back and opportunities that won’t come again.  Someone who spent her childbearing years in an unfruitful relationship might grieve the years gone by.  She
might morn the lost opportunity to put a little sock on a little foot every morning or to teach someone how to eat an apple.  Facing what is lost is one way we encounter pain.

Compassion:  The earnest seeker will, at some point, stop defending himself from the
truth.  In an effort to rationalize our actions to ourselves, we erect barriers to truth.  We hold our victims culpable in some way for our actions against them.  When we release ourselves from the self-defense pretense, we have an unobstructed view to the pain we caused others.  Feeling their pain, compassion, is a natural response to confronting this truth.

God’s pain:  Imagine being in a relationship in which you’re ignored.  Your continual demonstration of love and support is overlooked or taken for granted.  Your intervening help saves the day over and over, but your partner acts as if she had it under control all along and you didn’t have anything to do it.  You work hard to dream up the perfect gift and are excited to give it, but it is left unopened, not even important enough for her to bother unwrapping.  What kind of relationship is that?  It is how I treat God.

God, in his infinite compassion to all, experiences all the pain—the pain someone caused me, the pain I caused someone else, the compassion I feel for the one I hurt.  Perhaps most significant is what God feels when we fail to hold up our end of the relationship with him.  When we come into a full realization of the impact our choices have on our relationship with God, we grow into compassion, reciprocal compassion, for God.  This is a special kind of pain.  To feel the pain God feels over you is to grasp just how much he loves you.  It is a big step into intimacy with God, and it is our greatest source of hope.

Join the conversation.  What hope sustained your honest look inward?

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