The last post discussed putting faith and hope in God’s heavy lifting, but what if you don’t have that kind of relationship with God? What if you desire life change but don’t believe in a higher power that is loving and intent on helping you, or if you’re unsure what you believe?
My personal experience goes against Twelve Step wisdom on this point. The Twelve Steps encourage turning one’s care and will over to God at the start of the journey to recovery and renewal. If you are aware of something in your life that needs healing or change, but you’re not in a place to turn it all over to a higher power, I encourage you to embark on the journey on a self-help basis. Here’s why.
My first real experience of life change was shortly after college. I was motivated to change because the evidence amply demonstrated my old way of being wasn’t working. I analyzed and thought my way into new behavior patterns that yielded better results. My perspective then was that I did it under my own intellectual power. Looking back on the experience calls to mind a once-popular greeting card poem that inspired many to look on their life struggles differently.
|One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.|
|Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.|
|In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.|
|Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,|
|other times there were one set of footprints.|
|This bothered me because I noticed|
|that during the low periods of my life,|
|when I was suffering from|
|anguish, sorrow or defeat,|
|I could see only one set of footprints.|
|So I said to the Lord,|
|“You promised me Lord,|
|that if I followed you,|
|you would walk with me always.|
|But I have noticed that during|
|the most trying periods of my life|
|there have only been one|
|set of footprints in the sand.|
|Why, when I needed you most,|
|you have not been there for me?”|
|The Lord replied,|
|“The times when you have|
|seen only one set of footprints,|
|is when I carried you.”|
|Mary Stevenson (1922 – 1999)|
When I look back, I see one set of footprints in the sand. That much is clear. I was sure they were mine at the time, but from a vantage point 20 years later, I now believe God was doing the heavy lifting that I attributed to my youthful intellect.
I was a physics major so I’m drawn to scientific analogies. Here’s one. Black holes emit radiation unfazed by whether you believe in black hole radiation or whether you have even bothered to examine the evidence about them. The fact that you don’t believe in God doesn’t alter the fact that he loves you and acts in your life for your good. So go through the motions under your own power. You might meet God along the way!
Join the conversation. Have you ever discovered God in the midst of your self-help?
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